Successful couples aren’t without conflict, to the contrary they might fight like the best of them. However, they do something that most of the population doesn’t know how to do. They know how to repair the rupture quickly and effectively. PERIOD. They have a tool chest of habits that enable them to take total responsibility for their actions, especially when they royally screw up. If their partner or spouse is the one messing up that day, they know how to bring their “A-game”. They know the skills and tools needed to manage the situation and not escalate it. I want to give YOU these tools.
Here’s something that most people don’t realize…when you can take total and complete ownership for screwing up, IT FEELS GOOD! You are saying, wow I really messed up and now I am going to fix it. It feels powerful and you know your next move. If you fall into a puddle of tears you are giving your power away instead of stepping up and staying in the partnership. (and yes of course you can cry, I just want you to be able to stay in the fight and work it out!) Couples Counseling sessions will never be shaming or embarrassing, just a heaping load of help. It won’t serve anybody in my practice if I sit back and go gently 24/7. Of course I care deeply about how you feel. We will go over your patterns and interactions – but we don’t stay there for long. We move right into a better way to feel heard, validated, understood, appreciated, etc. This is relationship boot camp. I want you in and back on your feet asap.
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Ready?? I really really love what I do and my mission in life is to help you succeed in your relationship. Call me, 303-881-3355, or email me, firstname.lastname@example.org. Can’t wait to hear your story….